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The external view of the Retreat before renovation

What's happened so far 

I didn’t arrive at this with a polished plan.

What I had was a growing awareness that the life I was living — while outwardly functional and full — wasn’t the one I wanted to continue building. It was busy, noisy, and demanding in ways that left very little room to breathe.

Over time, I began to change how I lived.
Not dramatically. Not all at once.
But deliberately.

I built structure into my days. I simplified what I said yes to. I paid attention to what steadied me and what drained me. I stopped chasing intensity and started prioritising clarity.

France came into the picture not as an escape, but as a place that matched the pace I was choosing. Space. Land. Quiet. A setting that made sense for the kind of life — and work — I wanted to grow into.

What exists now is the beginning of a long-term build.
Land and buildings in their early state. Ideas being tested in real life. A vision that’s clear, but intentionally flexible.

Nothing here is finished — and that’s the point.

This page isn’t a record of constant progress or neat milestones. It’s a place to document what it looks like to build something properly, over time, without rushing it into shape.

The retreat will come together the same way everything else in my life now does: through consistency, restraint, and considered decisions.

This is where the journey begins — not with a launch, but with a commitment to keep moving forward, one grounded step at a time.

Today the house goes live

This is one of those moments where movement matters more than motivation.   (12/01/2026)

It’s one of those moments that doesn’t look dramatic from the outside — paperwork done, board ordered, photos taken — but internally, it makes everything real.

This house has held a lot. Grief, rebuilding, survival, and the slow decision that life can’t stay paused forever.

Putting it on the market isn’t about rushing forward. It’s about acknowledging that this chapter is complete, and allowing the next one to properly begin.

No big declarations. Just a quiet, deliberate step forward.

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